10 rules for working parents

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These are several rules, which will help you in a pious work of children upbringing


These are several rules, which will help you in a pious work of
children upbringing.
 
Rule 1. You should never come home
being too hungry.
 
Pangs of hunger,
especially after a hard working day, can make anyone irritable and impatient.
So before you leave work, try to snack something or at least drink a cup of
sweet tea. You will become more complacent and stand a burst of your
offspring`s elation from a long-awaited meeting with you easier.
 
Rule 2. Don`t overdo on work.
 
As a result
of excessive physical and mental load a level of hormone adrenalin increases in
blood, this causes a heartthrob, heightened arterial pressure and, as a result,
bad health and irritability. Coming home in such state, you will definitely splash
out all your negative emotions on your child.
 
A child
will hardly understand a true reason of your irritation. But he will have a
feeling, that even his closest person doesn`t need him. So try not to overdo on
your work, and , when you come home, forget about your problems for a while.
 
Rule 3.
Don`t say words or even hints, which can make your child think that your work
is more important for you, than him.
 
A child should be assured that he`s the most important person in the
world for you, that your work can be very necessary and interesting for you,
but your heart belongs to a child. You like your work, and you love your child.
Set out the priorities
the right way.
 
Rule 4. Communication with a child
should be priority for parents.
 
This rule
concerns women especially. How do you think, which opinion should have a
person, whom you explain that communication with him is nothing comparing with
cooking a meal?
 
Unfortunately,
we often have to see how children are impressed that they should not pester
with a mom, when she`s busy with the “most important” thing - scaling fish or
peeling vegetables, and if she`s baking, then a child should forget she exists
on this earth at all.
 
Rule 5. A child should be an equal partner.
 
Don`t discriminate
a child, charging him with the dirtiest work at home. Why a child should take
out a garbage can? Because you are in command.
 
Rule 6. Don`t assert yourself owing
to your child.
 
You`re an adult person, and you know and can more only due to this
reason. You wash dishes and play computer games better. But if you want your
child to be self-confident unlike many other modern children, then try to
behave the way he could feel he`s skilled and bright while communicating with
him.
 
Rule 7.
Work should be a source of funds for your family`s comfort existence and no
more.
 
If work is
a sense of your whole life, then it would be more honest not to start a family
at all. But if you still have a baby in your family, he should feel he`s much
more important for you, than any work can be.
When you
organize your combined rest, consider interests of all family members. Don`t do
a favor to your child, going to the zoo acidly.
 
Appearance
of a baby in your family - is your own decision, not his, and you will have to
take responsibility. Let combined rest bring joy to a child. Plan your home
matters the way your communication with a child would be foremost (may be you
can even reduce them).
 
Rule 8. Be an attentive listener.
 
While
communicating with a child, consider his words, pay attention to his intonations,
a child should feel his words are important for you.
 
Don`t value your child`s actions, but try to understand him. This way a
base of mutual trust between parents and children is laid. As you are busy on
your work, besides you also have home matters, every day you should find time
for a full-value communication with your child. Value of communication is
measured not by quantity of time you spend together, but by its qualitative
characteristics, which are expressed in attention, respect, understanding.
 
Rule 9.
Don`t be afraid to consult your child.
 
Tell a child about your work, share your thoughts and feelings with him.
Show him what it means to be open, don`t be afraid to tell a child about your
weak points and problems, explain him that you trust him and count on his
support.
 
It will be even better, if you ask your child for suggestions and listen
to his words. This way you`ll teach him formulating and expressing his opinion.
 
Rule 10.
Don`t reproach a child with money.
 
On no account make any statements and even hints about a child`s material dependence
from you. Yes, your child doesn`t earn money yet, but he has plenty of time.
And who knows, may be this situation will change and some time in your old age
you`ll be materially dependent on him. Don`t set precedents - and then you
won`t have to blush in your old age. 



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